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is this a disrespect

TLDR: is this a disrespect
In the forum thread, user willowtigger expressed concern about potentially disrespecting their deceased pet, Ebony, by accidentally disposing of the pet's fur in the trash. The user is troubled by the idea that they might have shown disrespect to Ebony's memory. Several forum members responded to willowtigger's concern, offering reassurance and emotional support. Users Welf, Catsmother, Elya, and Jay™ all conveyed that they do not believe willowtigger's actions were disrespectful, emphasizing the importance of the love and memories held in the heart rather than physical remnants. Welf also addressed willowtigger's emotional turmoil, separating the user's feelings about the loss of Ebony and a friend from a suicide prevention forum, encouraging willowtigger to see these as separate events and not to blame themselves. User Nomad highlighted the role of guilt and the importance of self-forgiveness in overcoming emotional pain, suggesting that forgiving oneself is crucial for achieving happiness. Overall, the thread focused on providing support and reassurance to willowtigger, helping them navigate their feelings of guilt and loss with empathy and understanding from the community.
willowtigger

willowtigger

i did something today

it might be a disrespect idk

i was getting the rubbish into the outside wheelie bin ready for collection tomorrow

and most of Ebony's furs off of the staircase i had swept up

i put it all in one of the bin bags without thinking and now i cant identify which bin bag its in, its all in the bin outside

if i let it all go to the bin lorry etc will that be a disrespect to my angel Ebony

i got two memorials for her in the house without her furs
 
i keep thinking my friend from the suicide prevention forum (freshhell her username was) and Ebony was the same

Ebony was my second chance to save freshhell

idk if i getting tangled in my brain though
 
They are seperate. And from what I know you went above and beyond for both of them. It is sad. But its a part of life that beings leave. But in no way is this your fault or are you to blame.

Blame is something you do yourself. Eventhough I think there is not a bone in your body that wants to do harm or is bad.
 
willowtigger said:
i did something today

it might be a disrespect idk

i was getting the rubbish into the outside wheelie bin ready for collection tomorrow

and most of Ebony's furs off of the staircase i had swept up

i put it all in one of the bin bags without thinking and now i cant identify which bin bag its in, its all in the bin outside

if i let it all go to the bin lorry etc will that be a disrespect to my angel Ebony

i got two memorials for her in the house without her furs
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idk. hugs
 
Welf said:
They are seperate. And from what I know you went above and beyond for both of them. It is sad. But its a part of life that beings leave. But in no way is this your fault or are you to blame.

Blame is something you do yourself. Eventhough I think there is not a bone in your body that wants to do harm or is bad.
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well said
 
Guilt can cause a lot of problems, you need to overcome it. There is something called forgiveness, you need to forgive yourself. Forgiving yourself is harder than forgiving other people but once you can do it, you will start experiencing true happiness.
 
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