ZandraJoi
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I've learned to take that step back & think what it's like on their end. Bullies bully to make themselves feel better. The problem is with them, not with us. Even though that knowledge doesn't help their victims' pains. It's good you can forgive. That's for YOUR health. Scars will always remain. I've learned to also just Smile. Nothing throws a person off more than when they are berating you & you are smiling back at them.
I've always been a loner & haven't been bullied too much in my life. Ridiculed, teased, but I think there's a line there. The ones who teased me teased others too. Bullies tend to find that weakest link & grab onto it like the proverbial dog to a bone & won't let go.
I've always been a loner & haven't been bullied too much in my life. Ridiculed, teased, but I think there's a line there. The ones who teased me teased others too. Bullies tend to find that weakest link & grab onto it like the proverbial dog to a bone & won't let go.