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I'm inclined to agree, it's near impossible to quit cold turkey like that. Everyone needs that little something now and then. What's important to learn is impulse control and healthier alternatives. Since my depression started kicking in full force again recently I've been really struggling to stay away from the junk foods, even gaining weight I don't want to gain, so I'm trying to re-learn impulse control and to stay away from things, or if I'm going to eat something unhealthy, to portion those things out so they're not as damaging for me.I've heard from people who quit cold turkey concerning junk foods and even though it took months, they weren't as addicted to them. I'm not sure I believe them. I do know that there are times I get on a carbs kick and can't fight it. Once I force myself to get away from most carbs (not all), I find that it's easier to not grab that can of pop or a cookie.
I'm inclined to agree, it's near impossible to quit cold turkey like that. Everyone needs that little something now and then. What's important to learn is impulse control and healthier alternatives. Since my depression started kicking in full force again recently I've been really struggling to stay away from the junk foods, even gaining weight I don't want to gain, so I'm trying to re-learn impulse control and to stay away from things, or if I'm going to eat something unhealthy, to portion those things out so they're not as damaging for me.
I have actually tried the redirect method, and I do attempt to stay away from the kitchen as much as possible, unfortunately when I hit the really low points my brain sort of throws that all away and I grab whatever I can that's comfort eating level foods and just snack until I either realize what I'm doing or the pain stops. As you know, I've had something pretty big on my mind of late, and the closer to reality that came, the more it would trigger bouts of depression, so it's gotten progressively worse as time has has moved on. My therapist and I are working on ways to fix it, but so far it just seems that whenever the lowest points hit, I either have a breakdown and go near-catatonic, or I reach for the bad stuff. Hopefully in time I can find something to stop me doing that!Have you been doing the redirecting method? It doesn't always work for me because if I get a strong craving, I'll eat everything else until I eventually give into that craving. But if I just give into the craving then I don't eat everything else too LOL
The redirecting method is where say you go through your kitchen on the way to another room...maybe take a different route if possible? My daughter was taught that so she wouldn't binge eat and we had a bathroom pass through she could get to her bedroom instead of walking through the kitchen. It helped to curb some temptations.
I have actually tried the redirect method, and I do attempt to stay away from the kitchen as much as possible, unfortunately when I hit the really low points my brain sort of throws that all away and I grab whatever I can that's comfort eating level foods and just snack until I either realize what I'm doing or the pain stops. As you know, I've had something pretty big on my mind of late, and the closer to reality that came, the more it would trigger bouts of depression, so it's gotten progressively worse as time has has moved on. My therapist and I are working on ways to fix it, but so far it just seems that whenever the lowest points hit, I either have a breakdown and go near-catatonic, or I reach for the bad stuff. Hopefully in time I can find something to stop me doing that!
Crafting is something I have actually considered getting into, and something I've considered trying to get my mother into, as well. Having dementia it's hard for her to understand even simple tasks, but I feel like there's a chance for crafting to help put her at ease. It could be a good distraction, you're right!I've got to get you into craftingYou know how I love to do crafts! It really helps get the mind into a better place and when you listen to music at the same time it's even more heavenly. At least for me. My husband can't get into any of that and it would probably make him more highstrung than he is.
I'm craving sugar and candy in the middle of the night right now, is it normal?
This sounds absolutely wonderful! I need to try this one day, and you're right not to trust the micro stuff, that's horrible stuff, kettle corn all the way!Moderation with the junk foods, I have 24/7 now in retirement, have done plenty of hobbies in my life and know if I don't bring them in the house, I can't eat them. What fits me a lot NOW is making a pot of popcorn, put some stevia and sea salt in the oil and then the corn and pop away....a kettle corn and no junk in that. I maybe pop some once a week. No micro stuff. Don't own a micro.
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