Worry

[Amanda]

Hi all I'm so fed up of this anxiety I've Honestly had enough today, I feel like everything is going wrone, I have a job interview tomorrow for weekends my partner which was my ex we are now sorting things out and he said he would watch the kids for me so I could go it's in the afternoon though so I won't beable to in the day anywhere his family think it's a bad idea I cleaned for a lady today she's not happy with my clean and said I didn't do a good job last week she has pets so it's hard to keep it really clean I don't know what descion is best to make but looking for the right work for my family is causing me alot of stress I would like a morning job so I still have the day but I can't be picky as work is limited right now I just want to give the kids more I'm doing a college course too doing a cleaning business although I only have two people that causes me stress as people let me down I'm feeling left emotional I'm fedup of people being negative I just would like spare money so I can do stuff with my children this job is far and hour bike ride too. Maybe I'm being stupid someone please help me with some advise please

 

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[PGen98]

I'm sorry you're feeling so anxious, Amanda, I hope the interview goes well for you, as I'm sure it will! I absolutely understand wanting the best for your children, and I'm positive you will get exactly that! It's hard to block out the negative, but it is so important to focus on the positives, the end goals you're trying to achieve. Focus on yourself, your kids and your ambitions and what others have to say or what others do, it means nothing. They don't know your situation, they don't know you, and they have no power over you. You are the one that matters, your kids are the ones that matter, so keep that drive up, keep that momentum going and you will get there! I believe in your ability to get where you want to be in life, you're a good person and you're trying to do what's best for you and your kids. That's a sign you're a great person, and you absolutely deserve the best.

 

[Butterfly88]

It sounds like you have a lot going on. Anxiety is the worst, I get it too. I hope it subsides soon. Good luck with the interview! Just take things one step at a time, day by day. Deep breaths can help too. *Hugs*

 

[willowtigger]

I hope the interview goes well, Amanda :

 

[Ozzy47]

I hope you do well. Try as hard as you can to focus on the positive and not the negative.

Yes it’s easier said than done, but don’t let a defeatist attitude set you up for failure.

 

[Ozzy47]

Haven’t seen you in a couple of days, hope you’re doing better @Amanda

 

[willowtigger]

I hope your okay, Amanda :

 

[Gibby]

Hope all is well

 

[Ozzy47]

@Amanda haven’t seen you around in a bit, I hope you are doing well.

 

[PGen98]

Agreed, hoping all is well and you're keeping yourself and your kids at the forefront!

 

[Harry]

Money is a bitter thing. As OP stated we have to fight a multi-front battle. And the most important part of it is to earn money and keep doing it. Then family, partner, relatives, medication, treatment. It is really hard if there are children involved in the equation. The priority goes to them, but in actual it has to be the person who is managing everything single handedly.

 

[Nomad]

When you worry too much, you will be prone to anxiety. In fact, anxiety is a condition when you will start having a nervous breakdown because of the situations, and events that you dislike. When you are too involved in something, you will experience anxiety.

 

[Shortie]

It's understandable that you would feel anxious considering the amount of pressure you are under to not only provide for your family but to also be there for your family and also keep people happy with the service you are already offering with the cleaning business.

You are doing everything you should be and shouldn't feel guilty, you have a lot going on and sometimes that can lead to mistakes and people need to understand that. You are doing right by your family, don't stress too much, and take your time.